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WHAT SQUARE DANCING
MEANS TO ME
I started dancing with
Foggy City Dancers in January 1994 by joining the Basic/mainstream class
with a friend from work and had two of the original members of the club
who angled us. We started with thirty-two and they graduated twenty-eight.
Our instructor was
Andy Shore from Mountain View, California. My partner and I should have
attended our first convention in Washington D. C. in July of that year.
However
the couple going with us backed out and we did not make the trip either.
The 1995 convention in Chicago was thusly our first experience for convention,
held over the Memorial Day weekend at the same hotel as the International
Mr. Leather contest, and down the block was the Bears convention.
The year 2003 marks
our ninth year trek to convention which is being held in San Diego, California
over the 4th of July holiday. And with good fortune on our
side we will get our ten-year medallion in 2004 in Phoenix. One of our
closest friends from the square dancing world also attended the Chicago
event. As our dance level at the time was Mainstream we spent all our
time in that hall. There was a big shortage of dancers who could do the
follow part and until two dancers, who I have always looked up to as superb
dancers told us to watch the current tip, check which dancers were doing
the follow part and ask them for the next tip. We thus spent a lot of
time dancing with the group from New York City.
Since that convention
we have managed to dance with the same dancers each year at convention
and sometimes at fly-ins. Square dancing has allowed we to form
friendships with folks from all around the world. In our local (Bay Area
of Northern California) clubs we have formed close relationships with
other club members. These friendships tend to help and support each other
when the need arises. One reason for the closeness is the fact that most
dancers who take a class end up dancing and staying within their group
for the better part of their square dance years. For us, as the years
have gone past we have lost members and friends for various reasons. However
they remain as part of our history as Square dancing has brought me lots
of fun, great times, travel around the country, and even greater friendships.
For the rewards that
I have gotten out of being a square dancer, I am trying to give something
positive back. Supporting my local clubs, helping new dancers learn the
calls and hopefully enjoy the activity as much as I do. The dancing p art
of this has made me more outgoing and provided me with an outlet to relax
and enjoy what I'm doing. It has helped form long time friendships, which
has enriched my life with all the wonderful people and places that square
dancing, has led me. If
you asked would I do it again? The answer would have to be a big yes,
with the condition that the same people and places would be part of the
picture. I should also add that my partner is still a non-dancer to date
but has always gone to our major dances and conventions with me. He also
will be getting a 10- year medallion with me (which is only right for
putting up with all my square dancing activities during the past years.
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